The invisible client

27 September 2026

It is a fact that the market for erotic massage is dominated by men as clients and women as masseuses.

There are men who are also masseurs, although on many occasions they end up giving it to other men. There is no doubt that men are the biggest consumers of this type of service.

However, there is an invisible clientele: women. We will divide them into two groups: those who come alone and those who come as a couple.

If this has made you want to try it: the masseuses at the centre.

Women who come alone to massage centres are usually women who are attracted to other women and want to experience a massage from a woman.

Almost nothing is known about them. There is a tendency in society to hide that there are also women who pay for these services. It doesn't appear in any study, it isn't commented on, and they are completely invisible. However, in the centres, more options dedicated to them are appearing every day.

The massage varies very little whether it is performed by a man or a woman; although men tend to be harder, stronger and have a more dominant energy, the technical side is very similar.

Women who are confident enough to go to a centre have many advantages over men. They are normally far more accustomed to physical contact with others, since women do not have the same stigma about touching other women.

They really enjoy the massage. Being massaged as part of the sexual experience is something they usually enjoy very much: long foreplay, lots of caresses, and a great deal of suggestion is something they love.

Whereas men are far more focused on the genitals and erotic massage sometimes feels like a struggle, for women it is far more natural and pleasant to spend so long on foreplay, not going straight to the genital area.

Some women can have several orgasms in a row during the practice of tantric massage: their level of arousal rises so much that they can have two, three and four orgasms in a row in a very short time.

The woman who comes as a couple normally does so to fulfil a fantasy with her partner, which is to be with another woman while her partner is present. In this case communication is the most important thing: having very clear boundaries for each person and explaining them to the masseuse before starting.

The massage should involve two masseuses, because to give a good massage it has to be given to only one person: it is not possible to give a good erotic massage to two people at the same time.

Most centres include a glass of cava or similar before the massage. Ideally, the four of you should take a moment to chat and share what you expect and, above all, what you do not want to happen during the massage.

It is a recurring fantasy for men to be with two women at once, and it is also a very common fantasy for women to share a bed with another woman. Women are much more open to being touched, caressed and even kissed by a person of the same sex; that curiosity is very common among heterosexual women.

The erotic massage for a couple is very similar to an individual massage: basically it is like two individual massages in the same space. There are many components that add excitement, such as seeing your partner receiving a massage, seeing everyone's level of arousal rise; the sexual energy generated by four people in the same room is significantly higher.

There are masseuses who love this type of massage. Normally they all have a natural tendency towards men or women, and above all it is very important to let the woman in the couple express herself, set her boundaries, and even that she is the one who chooses the masseuses.

Unfortunately, there are also couples who have a bad time because one of the two is not very sure, because jealousy arises or because there is pressure to go through with the massage.

It is really a growing trend in many centres: specific rooms for couples are being created and more and more couples are using erotic massages to break the monotony.

It is possible that the couple may want to finish by making love; most centres will ask you to do so in private, and that either the masseuses leave beforehand, or that the couple book additional time in the room.

Whether alone or as a couple, it is a reality that women are also clients of erotic massage centres.